On The Big Day, sometimes you need to consider the bride and groom speeches together.
For me and my wife (Samantha), we didn’t want to spoil the surprise by writing out speeches together. But we did think that it might be a good idea sit down and have a conversation about the the direction we wanted our wedding speeches to go in.
As all been to weddings where we wished the groomsmen would have done a better job giving his speech. The awkward silence, the nervous laugh, the noticeable unpreparedness. Well, that moment doesn’t have to be as difficult as you might imagine. We have been there, we know it isn’t easy, but their are ways to help you turn your most stressful speech into a wonderful and memorable moment. A moment you, your wedding party and the wedding guests will remember fondly.
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Before the marriage proposal you sought the advice of friends and family and now is the perfect time to seek and utilize the advice of experts when it comes to giving your speech.
Quick Tip: Everything I needed to know about my groomsman speech I learned in elementary.
Think back to the first time you gave an oral book report in your elementary classroom. You probably did what most kids did – dragged your feet, said you didn’t want to do it, said you couldn’t and then realized their was no way to get out of it.
Then you took your teacher’s advice, worked on a rough draft of things to say. You stood in front of your bathroom mirror and practiced what you wanted to say. You highlighted the best parts, worked on the length of your report until you could do it with just a couple glances down to the notecard you had in front of you.
The same is true with your upcoming speech. It will take some notes and it will take some practice, but it can be a fantastic speech. You can get an “A” from your bride, your families and your audience.
